why do people hate fujoshis

hating on a fujoshi is like hating on a beautiful angel. why does it bother u that me, a straight girl, likes watching men touch eachother?? ok typing that makes me sound really weird LOL
"b-but ur fetishizing us!!" its not like everytime i see a gay couple in public i go up to them and ask "whos the bottom". like i promise u i dont see gay people as some kind of object to fufill my weird fantasy