All of your family and loved ones get an email with your reading list (logged in or logged out) with titles, brief descriptions, links to the works and your comments. You get to pick if it's your ao3 reading list, or your mangago reading list. What do you pick? Does it make any difference? Can you ever look them in the eye again?
a gun to my head
i remember being so concerned about my reading list that id just add a bunch of random innocent looking historical fantasy manwhas that i have never read at all so i would feel better about myself reply