what are yall's pet peeves? i have one in particular and this is specifically for yaoi since thats what i usually read when the uke(whos usually sub) finally gets a chance to be more dominate but the seme ends up taking back control it always goes like this: >uke restrains seme with handcuffs or something of that nature >he gets on top and likely struggles making the seme impatient >i get excited >the seme begs and shit >a little bit of time passes by and the seme ends up breaking away from the restraints and takes back control ALWAYS without fail.