I asked this question about a year ago and I loved reading peoples' answers so I thought I'd ask again a year later. You can also respond with a lesson you are currently learning the hard way.
i never thought i was a petty person or someone who would hold grudges, but what i learned working in customer service industry during the years is
1. i’m extremely petty and i do hold grudges but i can’t show it (i’m actually a decent liar)
2. people are way dumber and actually way way way more cruel than you would ever think
i actually h...... reply
Honestly sometimes you have to let the person you LOVE go. Because I honestly didn't, I chose happiness over pain. I was so focused on fixing him, making him happy at last because of how his life was but I hadn't realised that I was making it worse. Like my friends told me that "Hey this isn't good, you're enabling a red flag behaviour. You should ...... reply