Something different

Hello please don't hate me for thisXD,
So I've been hating romance genre in any story I read especially if it is a action story then suddenly there will be a force romance or some irritating female characters in that story, but I'm somehow fine with bl (but I'm still kinda picky with the characters/story) and somehow I want to change my perspective and maybe just maybe my perspective in romance genre will change so I'm asking for a romance any form of media (manga, manhua and etc) all I know is I don't like a ml or fl to be like shy or blushing every little movement of their partner (it's just cringe) I'm looking for more like a mature relationship where they almost don't need to say anything and just show their love to each other or something like they don't even look like they are in relationship or something, btw I'm fine with homo (gl/bl) and hetero romance if you have something in mind let me know and thankyou in advanced