Anxious over stupid shit
My friends are like huge shit talkers, mostly for valid shit but there's like this one friend which gets pissy over a lot of small stuff lately, its not often but its often enough that it makes me think of everything I say or do is pissing them off and its horrible. She has said she has been off her meds and I feel like that might be why.
Its not like I can say anything either because they are like my bestfriend and I really want to keep this friendship because we've been friends for years and I really love being her friend, but sometimes it just feels like I have to censor myself around them?
Like I was asking another friend about what bls she reads because I learnt she read some and idk if she was joking or not (she struggles with tone) but she went 'really?' and I felt shitty because maybe I was interrupting her or something. She doesn't mind that I read bl that I know of.
She's a really great friend otherwise but like idk how to stop feeling like this or how to bring it up without feeling like I'm attacking her for it.
hard, uncomfortable conversations and confrontations are needed to build a good secure relationship. i’d question if they were a friend if they were not to hear you out and listen. i promise you ur not being mean or attacking someone if all you want is for a relationship to workout
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