College...
It's been a week since start of class, Everyone in my class knows each other while I was all by myself, when I try to talk to them I feel like I'm intruding their circle, I know connection and communication is important but in my case I can't. I go to school alone, sit in class alone, eat alone, walk alone, the only interaction I've been in is with my dormmate but they are in a different course and with my older sibling if they are free.
Some talked to me but it was just that.. I'm observing for the past few weeks and noticed that I really that alone. I can't connect to them because I feel like I'll be dragged into something I don't want to.
I feel bad for my parents who wanted me to be in college to pursue my dream when in reality I just don't want to be a burden to them..
I made a friend in a class, but at that day they didn't told me what group they are in and I asked them but they didn't told me until I was the "scraps" left bc all group were full..
I just realized I should just finish my year and never come back to school again.
It's just that depressing... plus the money spent for the entire year, I feel like it's a waste.
Anyways I feel like I'm gonna cry now, bye.
You are at university to learn. If you learn, the money isn't a waste, since the point of those courses are the learn, not to make friends. It's not a waste of money because you haven't made friends.
Friends take time to make, and I have been in university for two semesters and I don't have any friends either. I have a roommate and she treats me l......
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Real, me personally im bad at socializing so im doomed to be a loner and it makes uni so hard sometimes
and my soul leaves my body whenever we have to pair up in whatever way in class
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I just graduated college and it is a doozy. I was a first year RA for three year and from my experience first years are the most like the worst kind o high schoolers, super clicky and stuck up. After a semester/year they typically calm down, I feel like the clickynessis from the fear of being alone and shut out. It’s stupid, and keep in mind that......
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Real I get u... I spent all my free time in the washrooms nearly everyday during my first year... ig that was mainly cuz it was too loud everywhere else and I'd have panic attacks tho. Anyways here's to a better 2nd year!!! (I hate it here get me out I'm actually going insane free me please I'll do anything)
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Have you ever thought of joining some clubs or programs on campus? It might add on to how many things you have on your plate, but you tend to meet more open to inclusiveness type of people there than in your actual classes. I'm not sure why that's the case but even for me, it was difficult to find even one person to keep in touch with from my uni c......
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I’m so sorry to hear that these kids are still acting like high schoolers (I had the same experience when Ali was a freshman and it was very frustrating). You’re already there, so try to make the most of your classes. As for friends, have you tried joining a club or organization? Something like an art club, honor society, or Greek life could be......
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Just remember that you go to college for one thing which is a higher education/ pursing your dream everything else is a bonus. Eventually youll "fit in" or find your own set of friends. Join a club or something lowky the best way to find a group. Whishing you all the best tho you can do this buddy!! fighting fighting!! (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧
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I'm sorry to hear that but don't discouraged yourself from making friends especially when you're only a week in.All my friends are in different uni so it's hard connecting with other people especially when I'm an introvert. I do have people that I can talk freely talk with but our humor do not align so we aren't that close. I also went in there wit......
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I feel you cus that how I was during my freshman year and sophomore year. I made like one friend in freshman year but it didn’t work out/last long and happened again sophomore year but near summer break and that didn’t work out/last long. Luckily I have my sister but she actually managed to make friends in her freshman year of college and it ma......
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