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Lee 9 days
These replies are ….unsettling to say the least, blaming you for just now coming to the realization and saying they could never be in the same predicament you are in right now. I’m truly so sorry it’s genuinely not your fault maybe there were signs in the past but who knows. I would be so scared if I was in your situation I’m assuming you�......   1 reply
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the scary thing is some people switch up once they get married or have babies, so dont blame yourself too much if you feel like you didnt notice the signs or red flags. focus on going from here, like the other replies say talk about it with him and tell him what made you uncomfortable or what was mysognistic. regardless of why he might of said what......   reply
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oh my goodness!! other replies here are passive aggressive towards you OP, you are not alone on misjudging a person's character at all.. I am sure you have tried to assess your man before being married to him. It is not easy to vouch someone if they are actively faking their whole character People tend to forget that there are those people who can......   reply
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If you would only realize during a mid conversation fight then your not the sharpest tool in the shed. I'm tired of people pretending they have high standards for someone but in reality reading someone isn't that hard. You do not need a psychology degree, and it should not have taken you a couple years into the marriage to realize you married a mis......   1 reply
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This post is abt me obv but anyway im still in shock and just stumped and it's already been more than a week. Its making me question how well i actually even know all my other male friends. And just thinking about how much longer I'll have to endure and bide my time until i can safely escape this situation makes me just wanna kms so i can just be d......   2 reply
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No way you all are married, this is a troll post   1 reply
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Anyone who wants genuine marriage advice needs to tell everyone exactly three things: 1. How much do both of you earn and how long do you both work? This can be based off of household or job. 2. What is the family situation like: who does what, what is the schedule etc etc? 3. The argument/arguments themelves. What are you arguing about? I OP, fo......   1 reply
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We're missing the context of how bad it is, but regardless, now you have to think abt how to work w this from here on, both of you need to take some space from each other just for yall to calm down, then think abt potential discussion and communication (i was gonna doompost n tell you to b ready to book it in case things go south it but like many p......   reply
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Anybody saying they wouldn't end up in your situations is, quite frankly, a fool. People like this often don't show their true colours until you are "trapped" with them, so please don't feel stupid for not realising it earlier. Is the situation dangerous? Are you in a position where you feel you have no support system? Was the argument one that mad......   reply
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Since this is a patriarchal society, we more or less sometimes unconsciously act misogynistic- men overwhelmingly more as they don't face oppression but women aren't exempt from it. Even I had to unlearn a lot of things and teach myself how everything actually is. If he is really the person you knew to hold your views, it's possible for you guys to......   1 reply
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