Crush
I asked my crush for saturday night date. He said he was busy, but I'm pretty sure I just got rejected
Maybe I wrongly read the sign that my feeling required. He's just an active and kind person. He's warm to everybody.
I feel embarrassed, but not really disappointed. Just so damn embarrassed
Don't know why I didn't share this to my friends just to distract my mind. Ig that's because I've no one to trust
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I'm so late to this, but lol I kinda had the same thing just happen to me. After months of weird interactions, I asked to hang out and he initially said yes, but then rescheduled and then said he was busy. No one else understands the true feeling of shame right after being hit with an "I'm busy" rather than the truth. But hey, you've got more experience now.
It's been 7 month now, I found out the truth. He indeed was lying at that time.
Turns out, he was a jerk. I don't have a mixed signal at all. He run around led some girls on, making some of the girls thought he has interest and did that sweet things. Idk what he tried to gain, because when the girls reciprocate him he just run away like he did to me.
I just glad he did that instead of continuing his fake facade. Not wasting my time. The rejection was embarrassing, especially he was not even put some effort to it.
but I'm thankful it happened the way it did. And yes, my first time asking a guy and also my first rejection, I indeed gain more experience, that when they show you they're a bad choice, trust them.
Bro it's okay. It's way way way cooler to try and get rejected than to not try at all. Also, getting rejected gracefully is a great skill to learn in today's job market.
Thank you.
I know rejection isn't shameful, but I couldn't help to feel embarrassed. Hopefully I can move on from this sooner.
Proud of you that you tried. It's not easy to gather the courage to do that, but you still did.
Nothing embarrassing in trying
Thank you. I'll be proud of myself for trying