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"Let people fetishize what they like." You know what "fetishizing" means, right? It means using a group of people as sex objects and not as human beings. AKA women hate queer men, but they are willing to use them as their sexual objects. How can you think there is nothing wrong with this? I'm so tired of people defending this shit, and it's really ......   1 reply
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Let people fetishes whatever they want lol.. they arent harming rl people by just reading gay anime men raping eachother. Poop/pee fetisher (for example), youre weird but whatever..you do you. You shouldnt need to concern what other masturbate with lol ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭   4 reply
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Mai 16 hours
I read a study once on the topic of why so many women participate in the culture of fanfiction and ship male characters with one another, and the conclusion was that in media, male characters are generally able to have a more "equal" dynamic with each other than male and female characters due to how they're written. Even today, there still exists a......   3 reply
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Porn fetishizes sex in general and everyone in it. Gay, straight, bi. Porn doesn't discriminate. So everyone and anyone in this website reading stories that contain sexually explicit material is in fact fetishizing sex and a group of people. Sadly, people just want an excuse to hate on straight women these days. Frankly, as an older woman, I'm s......   1 reply
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People who dumb down an entire queer genre to just fetishizing are just weird, period. Literally most of the yaoi fans I see on twitter are scissoring lesbians who are constantly being invalidated for liking and reading yaoi. People don't realize there is a healthy balance between fair and valid criticism vs blind hate that leads to even marginaliz......   1 reply
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I think a main issue is that people don’t really know what a fetish actually is and what it actually means to fetishize groups of real people. I’ve seen so many people throw out the “Fetishizer!” accusation like it’s a be all end all way to shut others down. But there is a difference between being attracted to someone/something and fet......   1 reply
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No, not every yaoi reader who is a woman is a fetishizer but a good chunk of them are and it doesn’t just stop with them reading about gay men raping each other they do apply it in real life they will go and ask a random gay Asian couple who is the top and bottom or say “BL in life” or call, feminine presenting men omegas as if they’re not ......   1 reply
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Some people definitely do too much, but I think the only thing that would throw me off is if they support one sexuality but bash another, then it really gives fetish. But I will say alot of these manga with SA gives objectification to me and i wish ppl weren't so comfortable adding it into stories cause fictional or not its a negative thing.   reply
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honestly yes, a lot of them do fetishize gay men and gay relationships. but as a trans girl who used to be a gay boy.. they’re gonna realize real life gay people r actually not as cute as they seem in these comics sksjdjdhdndn so personally i don’t really care as much as i probably should   reply
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A lot of it is fetishization. Is a long conversation and many people want to go around the mulberry bush about it. But you have to realize the comments and posts tell on themselves. You say you're not fetishizing it right? Then what about when I see comments saying "that shit got me wet", "That shit was so hot" And it had tons of likes. Or post tha......   reply
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