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Okay so for most of my life i have considered myself lesbian. i first discovered the term in like 4th grade and was immediately like ''yup. thats me.''
well this last year i got a bf. i thought that i liked him and must've confused my sexual orientation. well fast-forward like 6 months into this relationship and im gonna be honest i dont actually know if i liked him at all. As a friend yes, but romantically? i'm not sure. i mean, he did give me a hickey and it felt good??
this happened in middle school too bc i thought i liked a guy then broke up with him 2 days later bc i realized that was NOT it.
however, i do like yaoi, and find it arousing.. so am i actually gay? i don't do well with irl gay porn though, femboys are cute?
honestly im really confused. even if i got it wrong and i actually AM lesbian i already re-came-out to my family and friends as bisexual and i rlly dont want to have to be like '''ahahah take-backsies, actually.''
guys help im so fucking confused
could be compulsory heterosexualty, could be bisexuality ! either way, you're queer and you're valid no matter what you want to identify as
finding yourself is hard, so don't be too hard on yourself op, if you find out you're bi ? then yay ! if you find out you weren't ? yay too ! it's hard enough as is to understand yourself so be kind to yourself......
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