Gatekeeping queerness
im pissed af rn ngl
. I made a post saying i was confused on my sexually bc for the majority of my life ive considered myself lesbian. then i talked about how i recently believed i may be bi instead, started dating a guy, i like yaoi, but found that i wasn't sure if i'd had romantic feelings at all for the guy i dated. Hence, i might still be lesbian but wasn't sure.
and then people went out of their damn way to respond calling me Straight, saying i never had feelings for girls in the first place (cough cough @Angelica still pissed af about that) and completely invalidating my sexuality.
Just bc i did not mention every woman ive dated/had feelings for does not mean i dont like girls in general. I thought that was pretty fucking obvious by the fact that i refered to myself as either lesbian or bi, and even if i didnt its kind of bold to just assume.
Some of you guys need to hop off tiktok, mgg or whatever platform tats making you this braindead and disrespectful and get a life.
learn some basic common sense smh pmo..
a lot of ppl here prob r young + should rly hang out with queer ppl irl imo
honestly seeing the replies make me angry for you cuz ... it's not that simple to figure out your sexuality lol
sorry ppl are being assholes to u op
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No no they were actually trying to mind control you into thinking you are straight don’t fall for that bs.
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Just because you’ve dated a guy in the past doesn’t automatically mean you can’t never be a lesbian, just because you’ve dated women in the past doesn’t mean you can’t be straight look at the end of the day it’s your feelings and feelings can be complicated and you know yourself better then a bunch of manga addicts on the internet , s......
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This is exactly what I was saying in your post yk… ppl nowadays force you into a box you clearly don’t fit into, they’re so obsessed with fixed ideologies of gender, queerness and sexual identities that effectively make it harder to understand yourself. Please don’t listen to those people, only you can be sure of what you feel and I trust t......
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They're like a couple of words away from bringing up fakebians and "gold star" lesbians.
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