Is he toxic from the start?

My lover is the most gentle person ever, i used to meet him every other day and we've been tgt for more than 2 years

Then, my family had a circumstances where we need to move to a different city, far from him. He himself, has a circumstances where it's very hard for him to meet me.

6 months passed without seeing each other and he suddenly become very irritable. Example, i go to spa/ do my nails/ and he suddenly said "what do you need all that for? I'm not even there. You got someone new?" Even though i showed him proof and even let him login to my social media accounts.

Do you think he's toxic from the start and i just don't realize it or do you think he just want attention in the most twisted way possible?

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Is he toxic from the start? [Answer]

Alufedro09 25 08,2025

me personally i wouldn't even go as far as giving the social media accounts, being in a relationship requires trust, and if he doesn't trust that you only love him, then thats that. hes too insecure to be in a long distance relationship, rather than ending it sour, try talking it out to him about this and show your frustration with his behavior, t...... reply

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Shh 25 08,2025

Long distance creates rifts against people, nobody knows your relationship so idk if he was toxic from the start but it's clear you should talk to him instead of asking strangers who know nothing lol 2 reply

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Jiyeonieya 25 08,2025

Possibly but I think you two being away for a long time made him distrust you, which honestly you two should talk about but social media is err... As someone's who's been there it's awful, my lover got into my private DMs and ruined a few friendships for me. Not that I was friends anyways but still. That's not okay, a relationship is built on trust...... reply

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Is he toxic from the start? [Answer]

____ 25 08,2025

No, [Yes, good people exist. However, for what a lot of people talk about is essentially the concept of someone being really pure, and truth is a lot of people still have an evil or rather are capable of jealousy and negative feelings and emotions. Not to say that a switch up is normal but it's not the case every time that the person is just hiding...... reply

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