How the hell people make friends????

My friend count is really low. If I take away family and boyfriend, the number is 0. ZERO. So yeah, that leaves me with mom, sister and boyfriend on my circle of friends.

I have college and work colleagues, but nothing more than that.

Anyhow, my question is: how the fuck are people supposed to make friends????
For instance, I'm shy and a introvert, so I get intimidated when I want to join a conversation about a topic of my interest. And also I feel like if I join, I might be interrupting or invading an existing group of friends.

I recently realized that I need to make friends urgently. Occasionally I feel alone, but the future might be even scarier if I stay like this. What will happen if my bf and I break up? What will be like when I move out of my mom's house?

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Nosequeponer 29 08,2025

I'm gonna camp here for answers too Like man, it's even harder if you don't have a partner of friends from highschool And I love talking to people!!! I love knowing abt other people's lives It's js that, talking w strangers and making friends is totally different It feels like everyone already has their friends and I'm forcing myself to others Thi...... 1 reply

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JAY 29 08,2025

As someone who considers herself mostly extroverted, I get the feeling of not wanting to butt in! What i like to do is listen and respond when a group of ppl have a question I may know the answer to or quickly giving my two cents abt a topic I know abt and not going into full blown conversation. These little interactions build up into friendships (...... reply

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bollallob 29 08,2025

Get out of your comfort zone. Being passive doesn’t get you shit. My little sister is just like you and even if I haven’t experienced it first hand, I get it. What I’ve noticed with people with close friends and/or large friend groups is that they’re usually established when they were young and in kindergarten or high school or whatever. Me...... reply

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lorelei 29 08,2025

Honestly, i dont know how i became friends with my friends, they're the ones who initiated talking to me (im very introverted), when the first uni friend i had approached me i think what i did was keep chatting with her, the topic was about school, so i shared my thoughts about my previous uni and current uni and asked her questions about her uni, ...... reply

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Mioro 29 08,2025

I just latched onto the first person who i was nice to me or was close in proximity in any new environment. This was my way all through high-school and university lol 1 reply

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Desgod 29 08,2025

Luck and perseverance. If you’re talking about having a casual friend group that’s one thing but if you want ride or die, you grab the feet I’ll grab the head throwing the body in the trunk kinda friendships is completely different. I’ve personally never had a problem making a casual friend group around me. Because I’ve learned to ignor...... reply

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miaumiau 29 08,2025

Camping for advice here too LMAOO also gonna share my thing cuz why not but my biggest problem is maintaining friendships, like i meet people and vibe with them but if i see you again im not gonna approach u out of insecurity, no matter what theyre doing i feel like im intruding and that they dont fw me like that 3 reply

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Angie 29 08,2025

I have no clue tbh! But we can be friendss 2 reply

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Caffeine_03 29 08,2025

I'm pretty much introverted myself so when I attended college on the very first day when we were introducing each other in the department among ourselves I let my classmates know that, I'm not really good at talking and starting convos specially in a complete new environment with no faces known. They were like it's okay chill we will make sure you'...... reply

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Unforgiving Kim dan 29 08,2025

I follow strangers home to ask if i can come in and we become tight besties that even the cops wants to join our friend group reply

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