How the hell people make friends????
My friend count is really low. If I take away family and boyfriend, the number is 0. ZERO. So yeah, that leaves me with mom, sister and boyfriend on my circle of friends.
I have college and work colleagues, but nothing more than that.
Anyhow, my question is: how the fuck are people supposed to make friends????
For instance, I'm shy and a introvert, so I get intimidated when I want to join a conversation about a topic of my interest. And also I feel like if I join, I might be interrupting or invading an existing group of friends.
I recently realized that I need to make friends urgently. Occasionally I feel alone, but the future might be even scarier if I stay like this. What will happen if my bf and I break up? What will be like when I move out of my mom's house?
Get out of your comfort zone. Being passive doesn’t get you shit. My little sister is just like you and even if I haven’t experienced it first hand, I get it. What I’ve noticed with people with close friends and/or large friend groups is that they’re usually established when they were young and in kindergarten or high school or whatever. Me......
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