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轻轻落下来的叶子 6 days
1. You didn't clear up anything, he didn't clear up anything. To him, it was probably because he thought of you as a friend. 2. You've only known each other for two months. Two months is about as familiar I am with a corpse, what do you mean you thought you were exclusive. Just wondering. 3. You 'felt' that you guys were exclusive. On what... bas......   1 reply
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Mioro 6 days
Listen unless theres a clear conversation abt exclusivity than youre not exclusive That being said, he asked knowing exactly how you felt towards him and was trying to be light hearted abt it while switching it up on you with "well i kinda thought you were". This wasnt him calling you a whore, this was him letting you know he doesn't see you as a ......   reply
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table salt 6 days
Ahh, I get your stress, but when it comes to situationship stuff, you always have to communicate your boundaries because there isn't a proper "relationship title" to define it for you. You have to just straight up ask him if he's talking with other people, and tell him that you aren't talking with anyone else. Also tell him that you want to be excl......   1 reply
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LeRain 6 days
You’re not dating, why do you expect to be exclusive? If you won’t say that you want to date, then it’s common sense to keep talking with several people. You seem pretty young? Don’t be blinded by your feelings, 99% of guys just want to get in your pants.   reply
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linaaaaa 6 days
honestly u have to actually ask him whether or not he’s talking to other people cuz look technically u guys weren’t exclusive since u never had an actual talk still ya gotta talk to him!! i toootally get how u feel i’ve been there BUT i dont think he’s wrong imo it’s normal to assume someone’s talking to multiple ppl if ur not in a rel......   reply
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Miss Peach 6 days
Wait, if he doesn't think you're like exclusive or atleast know you think that. Why would he ask how you felt??? I might be a little stupid but I don't get why you would ask someone who you don't see as a romantic partner if theyd be okay with you talking to someone else.   1 reply
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lorelei 6 days
girl there aint nothing wrong with asking, you need to communicate if u want this guy but personally i suggest dont do sutuationships or talking stage stuff cuz the trauma is usually there and it'll warp your idea of a romantic relationship like yk how u play mind games and do bare minimum stuff in situationships? you'll also start thinking oh mayb......   2 reply
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I'm mean y'all are talking and not yet dating, especially not even exclusively dating(boyfriend, girlfriend, etc) wdym?   1 reply
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Serendipity 6 days
There's a movie about this, it's called "he's just not that into you". If he was really interested in you wouldn't bring the "talking with other people" conversation up. Probably saw you were getting too intense and he had to make it clear, he's talking to others and testing his choices, he didn't want you to put all your eggs on the same basket. N......   1 reply
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_rugmuncher 6 days
Why would you just assume you guys were exclusive you should never "assume" anything in a relationship communication yall   1 reply
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