am i a stupid idiot?

basically i've been talking to this guy for like 2 months now and we hadn't really talked about what we are but i assumed we were exclusive and last night he randomly asks me how i would feel if he was talking to other people and i said "oh i'd be a little pissed" and i asked him how he would feel if i was talking to other people and he said "i sort of assumed you were and yeah i wouldn't be pissed"
i'm kind of miffed at him because of this statement...DID HE ASSUME I'M SOME SORT OF WHORE??? I DON'T KNOW WHY IM THIS PISSED
maybe i'm just an idiot idkkkk
and if he assumed i was talking to other people, he must also be talking to others right ughhhh idk how to feel about this anymore and i'm too much of a pussy to ask him if he IS talking to others sighhhhhhhh

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am i a stupid idiot? [Answer]

table salt 01 09,2025

Ahh, I get your stress, but when it comes to situationship stuff, you always have to communicate your boundaries because there isn't a proper "relationship title" to define it for you. You have to just straight up ask him if he's talking with other people, and tell him that you aren't talking with anyone else. Also tell him that you want to be excl...... 1 reply

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