Can't take Omegaverse and guideverse
Initially, i read a few BLs with these concepts, got acquainted with the concepts, and liked a couple for the plots, but now i generally avoid them like plague. It's the concept of them i can't get on board with. Apart from other problems with Omegaverse concept (omegas are written in the image of women in misogynistic media, the whole thing reeks of patriarchal gender roles), the problem with their concept is that they take shortcuts to intimacy. Rutting or guiding are just poor excuses for inserting smut. When the author isn't writing pwp, they are writing problematic tropes found in BL. There are many of these kind of tropes in the genre, but these two universes put me off immediately. I see the tags and I am out. And these days, it's like every second BL is either one or the other. They are also repetitive, boring, predictable and tedious to read.
Also mgg moderators, pls correct the spelling of experience in the experience section.
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While I accept what you says..there is this one BL I used to read. It is interstellar verse and very patriarchy. Omegas are treated as kitchen and breeding machines and alphas are the leaders. And it is the story of how an omega general who ride megas and his puppy alpha who supported and let him take the control in relationship. Like how they change the whole patriarchy system. It is very depressing (of how the patriarchy works is the same as the reality) and it takes me much strength to read it to the end. But they changed the system. It is very powerful and emotional BL. And there are more like that. So, try to read things like that. They will lift your mind.
And second, the reason who omegaverse come is to make men take the same place as the women who suffered from that in reality, and enjoy it. Idk now to explain. Some Chinese authors used to say they enjoy seeing men in such position (of what women suffered). Haha.
(I know my cmt doesn't really concern with what you said but I just want to share that there are many powerful message giving omegaverse out there!)