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I think the point is you each have your own expectations in a relationship and just need to make sure they align. I personally point out hot women to my hubby when I see them because that man is oblivious as heck. I don’t mind him having fantasies and actually encourage them. I don’t want him putting me on a pedestal. But that’s my marriage. ......   reply
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As far as I'm concerned, she's avoiding a red flag. Realistically, if people are approving of fantasies then things like emotional cheating don't exist and that also means that wanting to fuck your wifes sister is also alright once you only have the fantasy in your head.   reply
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I mean why would you do that though lol? Your lover is RIGHT THERE! no problem with like celebrities or models cause that's just attraction. If its literally someone they know personally that's a no-no, it's surely emotional cheating but that's how most cheaters start lol.   reply
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Ummmmmm it really depends on how this fantasy came up? And how it was communicated. There’s a big difference between having stray thoughts that something would be hot and actively planning it out and doing it in your mind. Like I’m assuming the husband is including the wife in the threesome fantasy? Or he put it out there that he just wan......   reply
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as you said, is a fantasy, is in the mind... and if the one with the fantasy (idea) doesn't communicate and acts alone the now idea, well that is not good; but if you have good communication, you should be confident in that link with the partner and you should be able yo talk it and look what the partner thinks... maybe will be "yeah! let's do it" ......   reply
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In my personal opinion, I think I’d only feel super uncomfortable with it if they were comparing me to this person, or if it was a person they could actually cheat on me with. For example, a coworker would be more concerning than like. A celebrity. And having the occasional thought is fine, it happens, but if it’s something they’re just freel......   reply
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I don't know if I'd call her an asshole. Definitely insecure and overreacting, though.   reply
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