18+ question about relationships.

Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?

Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?

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josefalaloca 6 days

as you said, is a fantasy, is in the mind... and if the one with the fantasy (idea) doesn't communicate and acts alone the now idea, well that is not good; but if you have good communication, you should be confident in that link with the partner and you should be able yo talk it and look what the partner thinks... maybe will be "yeah! let's do it" ...... reply

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