18+ question about relationships.

Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?

Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?

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Angelina 5 days

I do it all the time, it's only acceptable for me to do it though, If my man ever dares to have fantasies like that's Ima make him get a lobotomy done. I fantasize about sex with almost everyone I find attractive but I 100% do not mean it frl, Like if this man or woman comes up to me and say they wanna do it or just even confess to me and I find th...... reply

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