18+ question about relationships.

Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?

Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?

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As far as I'm concerned, she's avoiding a red flag. Realistically, if people are approving of fantasies then things like emotional cheating don't exist and that also means that wanting to fuck your wifes sister is also alright once you only have the fantasy in your head. reply

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