18+ question about relationships.

Is it common for partners to fantasize about sex with other people while in a relationship? Is it okay? Would someone be an asshole or insecure for not wanting their partner to do that and even breaking up if they found out they did?

Example. A woman finds out her husband has threesome fantasies. Most people would say a fantasy isn’t always an actual want/plan to do it and it’s not the same as cheating, so it’s not a problem. If the woman is upset or leaves him she’d be an asshole. Is she?

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Jiyeonieya 04 09,2025

I mean why would you do that though lol? Your lover is RIGHT THERE! no problem with like celebrities or models cause that's just attraction. If its literally someone they know personally that's a no-no, it's surely emotional cheating but that's how most cheaters start lol. reply

04 09,2025

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