Switching in BL

What’s your guys‘s thoughts on switching in BL? I actually recently have seen a big discourse about it so I want to see your guys’s thoughts and opinions. Do you wanna see more of it or you’re more into the strictly top and bottom dynamic? I’ve seen quite a few people think it’s disgusting which is so odd to me and just screams fetishization.

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Rosie 04 09,2025

Imo switching is incredibly realistic. Most gay men tend to be vers so it makes sense. Assuming that they both play a sexual role absolutely is just kinda lowkey weird (and dare I say heteronormative) cause it's assumed for the more feminine guy to be on the bottom. I wanna see more switching couples. Also calling two gay men having realistic sex '...... 1 reply

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Mioro 04 09,2025

I just want to see gay sex in BL, 98% just reeks of heteronormativity and looks performative Let them be verse, switch dynamics and have some fucking that actually feels like gay fucking reply

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LocalMeemaw 04 09,2025

I spoke on this before so imma just plug it in here too. “ Why is it normalized that there has to be a top or a bottom and that’s their role in the bedroom for the entire story and for what I assume to be the rest of their lives. Why cant the homosexual lovers make love and it doesn’t matter who is what for each session, it could be either on...... reply

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Peepaw 04 09,2025

Switching is peak I want more. People are only uncomfortable with it cuz of heteronormativity and misogyny. A man bottoming is seen as feminine and there's this idea that they'll lose a part of their masculinity of whatever. That mindset is rlly obvious in stories and among fans once ur aware of it. Even the most masculine buff bottom is somehow al...... 1 reply

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CM3 2.0 04 09,2025

Ive never heard that argument before since I see more people asking for more switch dynamics tbh, like strictly top and bottom is sometimes good but it gets old quick and falls into sterotypes I personally love switch dynamics I actively seek out those stories in gl and bl reply

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Truecoo 04 09,2025

Yes . But I’d say less fetishization more just leading into the societal fear of a man you’re into being gay. The common thinner, frail bottoms some women project onto and the idea of a super masculine top taking it up the ass (which I’m not saying you have to be into pegging your boyfriend) makes them uncomfortable. Something something bipho...... reply

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