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Rosie 9 days
Imo switching is incredibly realistic. Most gay men tend to be vers so it makes sense. Assuming that they both play a sexual role absolutely is just kinda lowkey weird (and dare I say heteronormative) cause it's assumed for the more feminine guy to be on the bottom. I wanna see more switching couples. Also calling two gay men having realistic sex '......   1 reply
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Mioro 9 days
I just want to see gay sex in BL, 98% just reeks of heteronormativity and looks performative Let them be verse, switch dynamics and have some fucking that actually feels like gay fucking   reply
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Local.Meemaw 9 days
I spoke on this before so imma just plug it in here too. “ Why is it normalized that there has to be a top or a bottom and that’s their role in the bedroom for the entire story and for what I assume to be the rest of their lives. Why cant the homosexual lovers make love and it doesn’t matter who is what for each session, it could be either on......   reply
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Peepaw 9 days
Switching is peak I want more. People are only uncomfortable with it cuz of heteronormativity and misogyny. A man bottoming is seen as feminine and there's this idea that they'll lose a part of their masculinity of whatever. That mindset is rlly obvious in stories and among fans once ur aware of it. Even the most masculine buff bottom is somehow al......   1 reply
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Switching in BL [Answer]
NanoFateHK33 9 days
Well, yeah, I support more switching in BL; the more options, the better. But I like to disagree with people who are calling relationships between men that stick to roles like "bottom-top" as "heteronormative," while most are "switch." That doesn't mean it's "mostly" switch. Most studies suggest 55% stick to roles, with 40% switching. So still the ......   reply
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CM3 2.0 9 days
Ive never heard that argument before since I see more people asking for more switch dynamics tbh, like strictly top and bottom is sometimes good but it gets old quick and falls into sterotypes I personally love switch dynamics I actively seek out those stories in gl and bl   reply
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Truecoo 9 days
Yes . But I’d say less fetishization more just leading into the societal fear of a man you’re into being gay. The common thinner, frail bottoms some women project onto and the idea of a super masculine top taking it up the ass (which I’m not saying you have to be into pegging your boyfriend) makes them uncomfortable. Something something bipho......   reply
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