I feel like I'm falling out of love with my bf
Yes, just as the title says. I feel like I don't enjoy his company anymore, and I'm not happy in this relationship.
We're in a long distance relationship, live in the same country, but 2000km apart. We still visit each other every 3 months. I feel I like him more when we're in person, I guess.
I started to feel this way about 4-5 months ago. There were aways somethings about him that bothered me, but I used to let it slide, thinking "that's just how he is". I'm talking about hygiene and overall behavioral stuff.
But that's when things changed. It started to get on my nerves really quickly, and it just went on, until it's gotten like this. As the days go on, I keep seeing more and more flaws, and I wonder if I really want to stay with him.
I've thought about breaking up, but at the same time I feel like I'm overreacting to things. I also feel so sorry for him. He's overall a good and caring person, but not for me anymore. Guess I should go to therapy, idk.
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nahhh if this nigga stank DROP HIM
If u feel like he's a good guy u should let him go. Obviously ur no longer happy with the relationship and just stringing him along because u feel bad isn't good. However, get to the real problem/change in the relationship that is causing this before breaking anything off. Is the problem he's not changing these issues even though u brought it up? Do u feel like he'll never change? Are u not willing to wait for change(completely valid)? Somethings can be worked through and just need communication. In the end u deserve to do what's best for u. Stick to ur personal values and trust in yourself.
Break up gurl.. relationships are not supposed to make you feel like that. If it is, then you are with the wrong person.
This is only my opinion... U should talk it out with each other, about your feeling and your thoughts .. if things don't work out then leave him , because staying together when you're not happy with the relationship JUST because you feel sorry for him will just HURT BOTH OF YOU .. ..
leave that hoe