Is it that bad to have had more than 10 ex...
Like i swear it WASN'T ALWAYS ME!! Like tbh few of those were just flings or smth like only 4 of them lasted more than 4 months, only 1 of them lasted more than a year. I have 11 ex in total... My bf shocked at my dating history. I've mostly dated to try and move on so it was not so good of me to make some of my partners be rebound. Ive APOLOGISED! Also made sure they knew this before dating them.
Like don't rlly come @ me 7 of them ended peacefully, I'm still friends with some of them and just for 4 of them... They either cheated or was too red flag. I sometimes also accepted cus i felt bad or like sure let's try.
My current bf rn don't judge me so much on it he said like he just reassured me like 3 times and idk i still feel like I'm abit of a "whore" for having that much exes.
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Lol sorry I didn't even realize the post was too old I look stupid now ╥﹏╥
Lmao it's okay
No it's not bad I totally understand cuz I can say that I'm the same. I'm 16 and I have 5 exes and I've kissed a few people, first kiss was prolly when I was 6 and I was kissing with my 10 y.o cousin. My first bf was a guy I dated in 6th grade and I was the one who broke up cuz I was stupid and childish. Then in 7th grade I confessed to my girl best friend and she accepted later on. We dated for a week but I broke up with her cuz I felt stressed and thinking of responsibilities I became anxious and lost interest in her lol ╥﹏╥ in 8th grade I had 2 crushes confessed to one but got rejected, in 9th grade I had an online boyfriend from Turkey but I broke up with him after 2 weeks cuz he was kinda weird and started texting less, at that time I met another guy in tutoring class and I realized I'm getting attracted to him so that's why I broke up with the online guy. So I dated with this tutoring class guy for 5 months but he was a red flag playboy asshole and a womanizer so I broke up with him. I can't believe I made out with that guy several times in the bathroom at teacher's house. I regret it so much he was a dick. Then in 10th grade, a few months ago at the end of 2025 (october) a guy gave me a classic book with a rose in it, we talked for a day or two and he confessed. My heart had raced a few times for him but it was the tiniest crush, I accepted his feelings and dated him for a month and a half cuz I was just fooling him I didn't actually love him I accepted him out of guilt and pretended to be in love w him cuz I felt too bad. Then I couldn't bare this guilty feeling anymore and broke up with him (I'm an asshole I know) We had a big fight because of that cuz the guy was so obsessed with me and genuinely thought I was in love. We cursed at each other and ended on bad terms cuz he wouldn't let go. Lol that's it sorry for my stupid venting, it seems like all these were fleeting romances and I easily lose interest. I decided not to date anymore cuz it's so tiring and I realized I'm lithromantic. So don't worry having too many exes is not a bad thing and if your partner truly loves you they will accept you for who you truly are with all your flaws. Nobody is perfect, as long as you don't cheat or do sth terrible it shouldn't be a problem.
As long as you don't cheat on your current boyfie, should be good
Couldn't happen I'm way too loyal (I'm actually just super clingy lmfao)
From the sounds of it no, but if the cycle continues, you could be like Rose from the Golden Girls- "Rose Nylund claims to have had 56 boyfriends before she was allowed to start dating as a high school senior"