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Some of your feeling are probs valid cuz ppl are toxic. my advice is get to watching character building shows like MLP(the old show), WINX, BARBIE MOVIES, MONSTER HIGH ETC ETC old girls media is lowkey what made me the person I am   1 reply
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Um well at least you self reflect.   reply
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just that thought “i want to become a better person” itself makes you a better person. you are self-aware and are willing to improve. thats all. i’d say try journaling, it helped me a ton.   reply
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May I offer a perspective I've learned about wanting to be better than everyone else? I think a lot of us grow up with the mindset that we need to be special. That we are special. Maybe it's because we have a talent for X. Maybe it's because we look like Y. Maybe because A,B,C. But why do we want to be special? Smarter? Prettier? Nicer? Most likel......   reply
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You don’t need to be perfect nobody is perfect we all compare and mess up sometimes being better simply means being little kinder with yourself and others. Feeling jealousy is human the fact that you’re even worrying about this means you alredy growing So try focus on gratitude celebrate others when you can and forgive yourself when you sli......   reply
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owning a glock 40 but seriously u should just sit down for a moment and think about life and yourself like girl, I WANNA BE YOU too uk I get bad grades so I'd wanna be u sometimes. There are always people better and worse than you so just focus on urself and try to set goals and just work towards it, that way u can forget about this fe......   reply
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I agree with the person that said some of your feelings are probably valid. Media also contributed to my life views. So watching heartwarming shows help. I was also taught empathy. I’ve always been a kind person but sometimes I fumble. When I was like 18 or 19, a man had approached me asking to buy him food. I was so surprised I apologized and ......   reply
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Hey, so you're not entirely an asshole if you do actually appreciate their efforts and try to self-reflect. I think honestly, what you can do right now is tell others that you appreciate their work and also I'm aware that you're struggling about self-appreciation but whenever you're feeling like that, tell yourself "This is enough, I did my best." ......   reply
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I think these feelings are all valid. People feel the same, even I have felt like this at one point. I think the first step is to be conscious about it and acknowledge it, which is what you're already doing! You're making great progress :) The next thing is to figure out strategies to help become more confident in yourself, and feel ok without need......   reply
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The first step to changing, is admitting that something is wrong with you. Your self awareness already proves you've accomplished that. To start, saying you want to become a better person is to vague. Try to think about what exactly about yourself you want to change. And if there are multiple things focus on one at a time. Think about what you'll d......   reply
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