am I problematic
					
					I have friends that I genuinely want to succeed in life and get happy when they tell me good stuff that happens to them because I really value them and they treat me amazing when I need them, and I have friends who I'm less close to that I just can't feel genuine happiness for when they tell me similar stuff (I mean I feel that they aren't as kind to me as my other friends asw so idk if that's part of the reason why) 
Is it weird that I have these kind of inside thoughts towards any of my friends at all and have differentiating treatments to them? Idk if it's fair to say that this has happened because I just genuinely feel better around the friends I want to genuinely succeed in life when the friends who I can't feel like that with don't even treat me badly. To an extent it's not about how they treat me but I just feel more comfortable with some people than others, I can't force myself to like some people bc of certain aspects but does that mean I'm problematic for these thoughts or do u guys get that too? Should I be cutting people out from my life if it's just problematic inside thoughts I have about them? I don't actually treat anyone differently on the outside due to them tho(I'd say so anyw)										
										
														 
				
								
								
				
		
	
		
		
				
				then we’re all problematics if you think this way			  
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				15 09,2025