am I problematic
I have friends that I genuinely want to succeed in life and get happy when they tell me good stuff that happens to them because I really value them and they treat me amazing when I need them, and I have friends who I'm less close to that I just can't feel genuine happiness for when they tell me similar stuff (I mean I feel that they aren't as kind to me as my other friends asw so idk if that's part of the reason why)
Is it weird that I have these kind of inside thoughts towards any of my friends at all and have differentiating treatments to them? Idk if it's fair to say that this has happened because I just genuinely feel better around the friends I want to genuinely succeed in life when the friends who I can't feel like that with don't even treat me badly. To an extent it's not about how they treat me but I just feel more comfortable with some people than others, I can't force myself to like some people bc of certain aspects but does that mean I'm problematic for these thoughts or do u guys get that too? Should I be cutting people out from my life if it's just problematic inside thoughts I have about them? I don't actually treat anyone differently on the outside due to them tho(I'd say so anyw)
No it's normal, we're not always going to feel the same about everyone.
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