Ever wondered why parents sometimes invalidate your feelings?

my best conclusion is because they werent raised with good parenting too. after that, they became parents in a young age with no proper parenting education too. so they judge our feelings according to their not so broad-capacities and capabilities. so, staying away is my best solution. lol I got my own freedom and time to think about my own flaws......   reply

Because their parents didn't validate their feelings do they think this is normal plus most parents don't think of their kids as a whole another human being but more of just a "kid" they don't think kids are people and they don't get out of that mentality ever soooooo yep. (I overthink their thoughts for why they do what they do so ik now)   reply

Sometimes!!?? Personally, since they didn't get good treatment but turned out fine (according to them), they prob feel it's not worth it to make their kids vulnerable. And also they prob don't know what they could do about the said problems of their child since their own problems were probably never solved. Most parents need therapy   reply

Indifference or cope.   reply

All parents come from a different generation. So, a lot of the problems that kids face just isn't seen as a problem for them sometimes. When you say something like 'I'm feeling really stressed', they're going to go 'of what?'. Which is why parents that are similar to their kids in terms of like idk mindset (?) tend to seem like they understa......   reply