BDSM DOES NOT EQUAL TO VIOLENCE

i think (new/unknowledgeable) writers or readers should know this, any forms of BDSM does not mean you hit and cum because it's not. there's some new (alarming) works here that uses SM as cover up for straight violence. i believe BDSM is an art and sometimes it is not even just for sexual pleasure. OG BDSM readers and writers should know.

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Aniyae 04 10,2025

I want a smut manga that has a realistic portrayal of BDSM and follows multiple types of relationships than just the typical sub and dom dynamic. 2 reply

04 10,2025

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Quanxis Simp 04 10,2025

Fr. Me wanting to beat up a man and whipping them for foreplay purposes is different. reply

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miaumiau 04 10,2025

Fr and it makes me want to rip my hair out when people just call abuse and non-consensual shit BDSM Like girl BDSM without consent.. is not bdsm reply

04 10,2025

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Jiyeonieya 04 10,2025

Yes like there's a kink under BDSM which is CNC (rape play), like just fucking write it that way if you wanna include some rape in your story wtf. At least they actually consent to it beforehand of wherever they're fucking. But no, it's just plain ass rape. Then ppl call it BDSM. 2 reply

04 10,2025

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silent_wisp 04 10,2025

Thank you bro i love you come here for a kiss ️ people really do be kinkshaming ALL kinks on this site in the big 2025 and then when you ask them they ain’t got a clue how the thing they’re shaming works… I won’t name names but holy shit some of you need to realize that healthy BDSM is a thing reply

04 10,2025

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MostLoyalTyongf2 04 10,2025

This is how I feel about no return after use reply

04 10,2025

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Mnemosyne 04 10,2025

This is why I can read some crazy/dark stuff as long as it's not tagged BDSM. I feel like if they're gonna market it as such, it has to be proper (like with protocols or limits or aftercare). Otherwise, just tag it as dark romance or something. reply

04 10,2025

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wannabesentaaguy 04 10,2025

a manhwa i read, cough, honey bear, cough. actually explained it well and they understood safewords! i was so fucking happy 1 reply

04 10,2025

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TWTIA 04 10,2025

Finally someone says this because yeah fully hitting them doesn't mean its BDSM like sometimes back when I first used mangago and saw a "BDSM" manga I was wondering if they were going to square up or sm reply

04 10,2025

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