i think (new/unknowledgeable) writers or readers should know this, any forms of BDSM does not mean you hit and cum because it's not. there's some new (alarming) works here that uses SM as cover up for straight violence. i believe BDSM is an art and sometimes it is not even just for sexual pleasure. OG BDSM readers and writers should know.
Finally someone says this because yeah fully hitting them doesn't mean its BDSM like sometimes back when I first used mangago and saw a "BDSM" manga I was wondering if they were going to square up or sm reply