Bl sex scenes that are actually good

I recently tried reading thirst and I felt that the sex scenes were pretty dry and honestly not really appealing. There weren't many sound effects and it felt dry like there is no lube used or anything.

On the other hand, I find myself rereading kabukichou bad trip all the time just for the smut.
Sex scenes are pretty subjective. It depends on their person whether they enjoy it or not.

So I wanna know what others find appealing in sex and also give me their recs on bls containing good sex scenes

These are my preference when it comes to smut

1. Mutual consent - I hate rape scenes between main characters that never get addressed and are forgotten. I just hate rape scenes in general. Eg. Jinx (contains too much rape) and low tide in twilight (I just couldn't read after the first rape scene)

2. Manga over mahwa - for some reason I prefer black and white over colored pages. Also I find dik sizes to be less exaggerated in manga than in manhwa

3. Talking during sex scenes- Nokemono Domoni Shukufuku wo has so much dialogue during their sex scenes the dragon is a yapper but I unexpectedly like it there is just something about being able to casually converse while having sex

4. Enjoying the sex and being open about it- many times the uke would just be saying no while secretly enjoying it and the seme be mewing the whole time. All the moaning would be from the uke while seme would have a stone face with maybe some groans. Makes me question if men even like penetrating