October is such a bad month for me lol since it used to be the anniversary of with my ex-bf who passed. I've healed but the grief is obviously still there, it doesn't go away. I just can handle it more now but still doesn't mean I can't break down nor relapse from time to time about him. I really regret a lot of things during our relationships and some parts I wish I knew sooner or had better control of my feelings. I was at our organization office, it was only just two of us (me and my current bf) and he saw me looked so down and I guess I almost looked like I was about to do something to myself so he went and hugged me. Just in that moment I felt everything lifted and I vented to him there and there, how I felt and how I wish I understood things more better. Then more personal stuff. He didn't say a thing and just listened and yet still from his warm embrace, I felt at peace. Sometimes all you genuinely need is a hug because after that I wanted to go home and he missed a class just for me. I don't know what I really did to make him fall for me or anything but I'm glad I have him.
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Damn I feel like I'm prying too much sorry
Just a question why do you grieve over dead like no one in my known has died recently but I never felt grief ,I paid my respects and what was done was they're gone so I just forget them all together I don't bother anymore ,just a question to understand how it works
idk I loved the person alot so they were very special to me, more than anything at the time and it was s*icide and I had to deal with it in my own
Oh that's sad I've never dealt with suicide before it's rare in my country, but it takes a lot to go through to suicide ,but didn't he show any signs?
he showed a lot actually and that's why it was hurtful. also it's okay you're not prying too much you're just curious
it's just I couldn't help him, honestly he was suicidal already but I guess this time he succeeded.
Oh man it does such when you see someone close detoriate and you're helpless ,dw this too shall pass maybe focus more on present and pay respects ,my culture Believe in re incarnation who knows he'll be son of billionaire next life haha
hahaha I lowk believe in that too so thank you <3 I hope it passes soon it's been a year now