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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
Yuzo 2 days
I doubt you're as boring as you think you are. The reason we think we're boring is because our thought processes make sense to us and it feels like what we say is the obvious response. But we all were built from different experiences and come to different conclusions so what is obvious to you may be surprising to someone else because they've never ......   1 reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
NanoFateHK33 2 days
My biggest regret is self-hate for thinking I was boring and wanting attention from others when I was a child. Girl, love yourself and be who you are. Even if you don't have friends, at least you are being yourself. If you are with people who don't love you for who you are, then they are not your friends. Like I wish I had been told as a kid, you d......   1 reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
Megatrons chair 2 days
I feel the same, it's not that we're boring it's just that we still haven't met someone who just super vibes with us and has a lot of the same interests as ours so we missed out on a lot of trends or inside jokes. I don't have advice cause I also don't know what to say, I'm not hiding my true self but ppl would be surprised that I'm silly and curse......   reply
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stealyoursoul 2 days
become a person you actually like by being honest about who you are & what you like instead of throwing your hands up & claiming being boring as your personality . once you become a person you like, you will speak up & go after people you want to talk to without being afraid of rejection. how will you find real friends that are worth being close to......   reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
yeah 2 days
i had one friend who'd ask philosophical questions a lot and we'd go back and forth about that;; there's also just talking about random crap in your day, what you ate, how's the traffic, what your roommate did, what your professor did, if you're getting sick, if something happened in class;; and with some friends i'd talk about the recent news or p......   reply
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Angry_Alpaca 1 days
You're SO REAL. I know it's tough, but people really only actually have 1 or 2 real friends. I would say that I barely even had acquaintances till late in college. My actual friends and I only catch up about once a month because we genuinely care about each other's lives, but we don't try to force conversations. They know every detail of my life,......   reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
So so much baby oil 2 days
Escape into literature and eventually find people that like what you read in book clubs or online spaces, I read just about anything so it isn't hard to find a common genre. I guess my advice is to diversify your interests and enjoy it, talk about plots or views on the writing or whatever it is you like. Best way to maintain close friendships is to......   reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
CherryTree 2 days
Watch '' the Power of Quiet '' or read it, it's so freeing !! Maybe you'll have a thing or two to say about being an introvert after that ! :-) There is probably more introverts in your direct surronding than you think ! We just aren't very loud. ;-) Also, over the years I have been taking note of the conversations that I am feeling super passio......   reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
chottomattey 2 days
Sometimes you just gotta fake it till you make it, but not too much. Cause personally, it takes me months, or even years, to warm up to a person. So I just gotta fake it till I make it, it's a bit exhausting so make sure you choose your friends well. Choose people who you think wouldn't tire you out and aren't too different from you. I mean same, m......   1 reply
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How to maintain close friendships if im boring? [Answer]
Eva 2 days
I would really like to give some advice, but the thing is... I'm EXACTLY the same. Literally, this could very well be something I wrote myself, word for word. The fact that my overthinking and anxiety are gradually worsening over the years isn't exactly helping... so yeah, while I can't give you advice I need for myself I just hope that knowing you......   1 reply
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