ranting cuz my rejected me 7 months ago and i still cant move on

Girlriri Girlriri 2025-10-15 05:37:42 About question
okay so i'm exagerrating a bit but i'm yearning for some shit rn yall, like how is it so easy for people to have their crush like them back or to have someone attracted to u? like, i never got a boyfriend or somebody, not by choice but because nobody seems to be confessing their infatuation to me. Like, am i that unattractive? or that much of a bad personality? i confessed to my crush few month ago and obvi he rejected me, just wished i never knew of him or yk hoped that he burned the letter.

people says i'm cute or pretty but that never really became a reason for a person to yk have a crush on me. I'm not trying to down myself but yk, just wondering. I am still 18 but even in college, no one seems to be attracted to me. but this crush... i'm a very sexual person (virgin) but i nvr thought abt anything like to this bitch, like i wouldnt mind if he continue living looking ugly, as long as he's mine but he's not so sucks! lol

pray i find someone better than him in college (and maybe also likes me back lol)

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Roxi Oxi October 18, 2025 7:30 pm

I don't think being ugly is such an issue. I mean I see ugly people who date all the time. I think you either need to have a good personality or good looks but if you have neither, you are screwed sorry. For that particular guy, it is possible that he didn't like your looks but please strongly consider that maybe he didn't like your personality.
Maybe you need to stop expecting the perfect person to come along and obsesse over you and start trying to become a better person yourself. Hope this helps♡

Justchloe October 15, 2025 7:03 am

Cheer up, I used to feel the same way because my crushes always liked my friends more(●'◡'●)ノ. It sounds frustrating at first, but the right guy will eventually come. Trust me, I used to feel I was ugly because my friends always seemed to get the attention. It wasn't until I transferred schools that I was exposed to a bigger school. More people, more interactions. I realized I wasn't the problem. I just haven't found the person who would find me different, and would genuinely love me for who I am. I am sure you will find someone too. You just haven't met that person yet. You're not unattractive, you will find that person, in the right time

Jiyeonie October 15, 2025 6:31 am

Okay, imma be honest love life ain't really just that easy. It also has responsibility and in this generation, love always end up in lust and trust you'd rather be single than have a shitty partner, I understand it can feel lonely and whatever but honestly you need to love yourself first before going to others and sometimes it takes for you to do the first move! Also you're still young, honestly everyone in this age dates TOO early and rush in it and most end up in bad relationships and traumas. Early pregnancy even. It's not about your looks, it's about your personality I mean it's kinda shitty if someone only dated you cause of your looks right? Love takes time and lots and I mean lots of time spent together. You don't need to say yes to every guy, have some standards girl! You deserve better.

CimmicaCocoa October 15, 2025 6:21 am

Girl maybe webtoons made u think love is something else but I promise u infatuation is not what you want who knows I’m aroace but what I’ve seen from friends that usually doesn’t end well. Idk how you look or your personality (bc obviously… I don’t know you lul) but calling someone who rejected you a bitch for rejecting is a bit rude unless they rejected you rudely or something. I pray you will find someone but also be patient with it. Finding love for the sake of love might make you settle for something bad that you don’t deserve and should deserve something better. Go to clubs in college I promise you will find your people. Getting into a relationship has no deadline. Don’t waste your energy stressing over it to the point you can’t enjoy anything else. Cherish your friends and have fun. If love comes around, great. But don’t let your life be ruined if it doesn’t until much later. Also, don’t let one rejection break your spirit! I like that you were confident enough to confess. Keep it up :)

Girlriri October 22, 2025 12:28 am

girl thanks for the last part but I'm not stressing over it, i'm just ranting just so at least i can make my life a tiny bit exciting in some sense. anddd i never called people i dont like a bitch, they're always people i adore or close with... and ykk webtoon didnt do shit on how i perceive love (i dont read romance)... but yeah, really just ranting maybe beacause i see people my age getting into these relationship while i feel ledt behind? i guess it's really just FOMO but you're right yk cuz relationships rly dont got deadlines and maybe it will come, maybe it wont...

just posting cuz it's such a small part of my life that i at least want to keep that part of me alive even if i have to make stupid posts like this lol anyways thank you for the advice

ihatespit123 October 15, 2025 6:19 am

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