Im so slow

Im so incredibly dumb it’s insane cuz tell me why I was scrolling on TikTok and I came across a video of this girl saying her favourite ships and I didn’t think much of it until she said “ Bakudeku” and I thought “ why do people say bakudeku and not dekubaku” so I ask thinking it had something to do about age or something but it’s actually their TOP OR BOTTOM ROLES which is who is fucking and who is getting fucked and when I found this out I felt so dumb cuz huh??? How did I not know that this whole im looking at ship names and wondering why a specific person has thier name first holy dumb bruh