Side parts/Side swoop

I need to know if I’m the only one please. So every time in a manga, specifically BL, when one of the main characters (often male lead, but sometimes my) get dressed up, they do this side part/side swoop thing. I think it’s SO UGLY every time. I don’t know if it’s the bare patch o forehead I see or what but I don’t like it. Like I like their hair down or slicked back/pushed back but the side part is NOT IT. is it just me or do other ppl hate it too? It almost feels like a glow down when I see it.