Gay folks, how do you handle having a crush on your friend

Girl just kys ️ kindly, I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy   3 reply

If she’s straight then give up, if not then try asking her casually about her ideal type. If she likes you, you’ll know it after that question.Don’t act desperate, if you’re not super hot, most people will get turned off. If you’re this obvious then chances are, everybody knows.   reply

The top commenter here is being an ass for no reason, projecting much? Having feelings for your friends doesn't inherently make you a bad friend. It's how you handle it that does. If you keep insisting for a romantic relationship even after the rejection, THAT makes you a problem. Most adults have the capacity to deal with these situations with mat......   reply

I don't   reply

Honestly, I did DATE HER YAYYY. Lore was, we were childhood friends ever since we were eleven-twelve. We grew up in the same school btw until highschool sooo yeah we were very close. We bicker and joke alot with each other. Apparently, I was introduced into bl and gl when I was fourteen?? I liked it and introduced some of the bl dramas/manhwas to h......   reply

Bro, don't open this can of worms for me. The flashbacks of 'we just do this stuff during sleepovers sometimes, but we're just best friends and school mates who mess around, but like only when the time is right so I yearn for her for months on end, hoping she breaks up to have rebound sex with me', this shit HURTS! All the times she broke up with n......   reply

If it were me I would go for it. I usually start talking about sex and perverted shit and see how they respond, but I've been lucky in that the girls I was interested in ended up being interested in me too (but that was how I tested the waters).   reply