How do you know if someone doesnt like/hates you?

Like genuinely sometimes I feel like some of my friends hate me. Even for a while or because of something I said.. like im the type of person who doesnt think before speaking and immediatly regretting afterwards.. and my friends say Im like a weird kid And sometimes I feel like some people hate me for that.. I genuinely cant read people and I tend to overthink and overshare a lot but Honestly I love everyone. Even people who arent my friends Im really nice and I always smile at everyone right but maybe im overthinking but i srsly feel like my friends leave me out sometimes and they make me feel like im hated.. like even when they DO invite me out Im hesitant to actually accept the invitation because I feel like Ill js feel left out at the function..

but they are nice friends and ive had good interactions w them too !! like i dont ALWAYS feel this way i guess

idk maybe im overthinking a little bit lol but i need to fix my oversharing habit.. sometimes when im talking abt smt they js reply "why do i need to know this?" lol it makes me feel a little judged

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seabi 20 10,2025

maybe y’all just don’t match ? and it’s okay you know, if they don’t match your energy. but they shouldn’t say like « you weird » or things like this cuz it’s just mean girls type shit. you don’t need to change anything abt yourself if they’re the one who are judgy btw, you dont even need to overthink this, because in the end, y...... 1 reply

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Achaca 20 10,2025

There are always two sides and you will never know until you ask. So what do I do if I am interested if someone likes me? Call me old fashioned but I just ask them. „Hey what do you like about me?“ „tell me what do you think about my habit of oversharing? Can you help me making you more comfortable?“ Just be honest with them. I can just te...... 2 reply

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Crablante 20 10,2025

yeah, maybe you're right and they don't like you as much as you like them. you do seem insecure and a bit annoying, judging by this post. however, IT'S OKAY. if that is who you are, that's who you should be proud to be. these friends may not stick around, but new ones will come. continue to treat others the way you want to be treated and eventually...... 1 reply

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EvilLettuceMan 20 10,2025

I can kinda tell what type of person you are, and I totally get why they might act that way. It def seems like they don’t really like you, but they’re too unsure or too polite to say it straight up. It’s not the end of the world though i mean you can either work on what’s causing that or find people who genuinely vibe with you. I used to be...... 1 reply

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Buttsex3000 20 10,2025

Idk I wouldn’t say drop them but maybe try distancing yourself more and try making other friends instead. If you don’t match w them it’s not the end of the world but instead it’s time to start looking for a new group of friends, it’s gonna take time and shit but it’ll be worth it at the end keep putting yourself out there because eventu...... 1 reply

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Ronnie 20 10,2025

believe me i know how you feel, ur just not round the right people probably. i feel the same way with a certain friend group of mine but i feel completely comfortable with another. so maybe just try out different people? but also most of the time it’s just in ur head, overthinking can really lead to destructive thoughts that aren’t healthy for...... 1 reply

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