Long post - ignore if you don't care for drama

I've thought it over a lot and decided I'm just gonna drop my pov here. Previously, I only spoke about these things with people directly affected by what happened, but since this guy continues to roam here and outsiders keep getting dragged in whether by choice or not, I figured people deserve to know what kind of person they are dealing with. This is gonna be long so buckle in.

Everyone seems to think this is just a shitty discord breakup from a few months ago, but this actually goes further back. Forgive me if the timeline and details are a little vague, it's been a long time and some things have been deleted, banned, or lost.

In fall of 2024, I started noticing a user posting a lot about fake deaths, comas, apologies, arguments, and losing friends. I assumed it was some 16 year old badly handling their first friend breakup, so when they posted, I'd respond with some advice. I don't recall when exactly, but he eventually spoke a bit about college and a thesis so I later assumed he was 20 or 21 yrs old. One day, he reached out to me. At this time, his name was Hajun. He was dealing with some strong animosity toward some people on here that he fell out with and he wanted an outsider's perspective. Although he insists that he didn't think they'd see his posts about how awful they were, I am now 100% sure he made those posts specifically for them to see.

In the month following this, I began to see two accounts regularly crashing out in the forums (one was Hajun and the other was named Kyaah). They'd waver between begging for forgiveness and dragging their old friends through the mud. I already kinda assumed they were the same person because many of the details in their stories were the same, but I still gave them advice about focusing on themselves and moving on. As time went on though, I grew increasingly worried about their mental well-being and how obsessive and strong their animosity toward these friends were.
Then I saw a passing comment that really shocked me. Someone who I assume was one of his ex-friends accused Kyaah of impersonating a person who had committed suicide and died. It deeply unsettled me that I could've been interacting with someone so morally bankrupt, so I reached out to Hajun to find out if Kyaah was him. At first, he denied it and I decided to not push him on it because ultimately I'm just a stranger on the internet and he doesn't owe me anything. A few days later, he came back and admitted he had been using the account Kyaah along with another person. He also named the user he blamed for his bf's suicide. Honestly, the fact that he cries to high heaven about how much he cares about minors, while never censoring their usernames and opening them up to scrutiny and harassment never stops pissing me off.

In the days following this conversation, the forums became filled with anonymous rape threats and deepfake porn directed toward his ex-friends. Not long after, Hajun himself was targeted by a troll who publicly accused him of being Kyaah and the one sending rape threats. This was when I found out Hajun had changed his bio to reflect the story he'd told me with the addition that he was paying someone to pretend to be his bf. But when other people pointed it out, he told them that his bio was a lie to troll people. Confused by this, I confronted him about whether or not he lied to me for funsies.

At this point, he had switched up his story so many times, I realized I would never be able to trust him and the idea that he could be impersonating a dead man made me so uncomfortable, I decided to stop all interactions with him. Months later, I would learn that after I cut things off, he would tell other people that HE felt uncomfortable around ME and insinuate that they should not interact with me. This is something that he has also done to his previous friend groups to prevent people he wants to befriend from finding out the sketchy shit about him.

After I stopped interacting with him, he pivoted from his ex-friend posts and started posting about how to make ppl feel more "comfy" around him. When I would answer or ask questions, he would respond to people replying to me, even at one point telling a person "I wish I could respond". These are mild annoyances, but I think they show exactly what kind of person Hajun is. He continuously tests your boundaries, hoping you'll give in. We were just acquaintances who exchanged a few dms. If this is how he reacts after an acquaintance sets boundaries, then how out of hand do you think he'll go when an actual friend sets boundaries?

After one of his how to get people to forgive you questions where a bunch of mgg people told him to reach out and be sincere, he again crossed the boundary I set and sent me a dm. Atp I was tired of him moping in forums and sneakily interacting with my answers. He also lowkey blames me for even asking him about whether he was Kyaah. This is pretty much a typical apology from Hajun - "I'm sorry but you know it's kinda your fault."

Honestly the boundary pushing almost worked. I did start feeling like maybe I was overdoing it and being too harsh. Hajun's drama with the first server was mostly over and he started making new friends. I was actually happy he was moving on and cheering up. They made their own server and things seemed to be going well. I was asked to join the second server, but I declined so I was not there when his problems with the second server started, so take this next bit with a grain of salt. Hajun was reprimanded for things he'd said and done to the minors in the server. He left the server, then tried to come back, but the adults refused to let him back in (thankfully).
Then came the fuckery where he allegedly committed suicide and fell into a coma. His "friends" then contacted ppl from the server through HIS discord (y'all tell me if I'm crazy, but if you're kicked from a server, could your friend who has NEVER been in that server look at your discord friends list and know exactly who was from that server?). Those "friends" blamed them for his suicide, sent them suicide notes and fake medical bills, and even asked them to pay for his medical bills. The Kyaah account even claimed that Hajun had jumped off a roof and died.
After his little coma scare, Hajun was all over mgg repeating the same stuff that happened with the first server. Begging for forgiveness while simultaneously blaming the second server for what had happened. If no one responded, he send message after message. If he got blocked, he'd log into an alt or ask a friend to send his messages. He'd send weekly friend requests on discord just to see if he'd been blocked. Everything that happened to the first server, started happening to the second server. Rape threats, doxing, deepfake porn. Literally who else would even use the delete your mgg account or else threat? No one else thinks mgg is that important except you HAJUN. Anyway, if you choose to associate with this guy, stay wary. Stay safe. Never divulge info about who you are irl and never ever share your face.