Man the things I do because I care trigger warning
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Update 1
At her house she was blasting sad music so I tried uplifting it up by some random playlist title "uplifting music" just some Taylor swift and Paramore
Idk if it's working but hope it is
Context " at a classmates house because she texted me some undeleting stuff so I went out in the middle of the night to go to her house because she attempted asking for advices since it's her 2nd attempt probably Because of bullying but she won't tell me so I'm sitting down in one of those office chairs that spin and just spinning around (the song is jealous by nick Jonas) idk what music to uplift someone
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just listen, some people just need a peron to listen, and be there, if youre that close ask her if shes okay to talk about whats bothering her or making her do all these stuff,dont judge her, never say "oh..what if instead of doing that you---" or "maybe if you did ----" dont give advice if not asked, just listen intently and show compasion say "im sorry i didnt notice sooner on that youre struggling with something" and keep on listening, goodluck op!!
Thanks I'm at her house right now she's not really talking but that's fine I just chatted like how like about I feel like she's going and how I dealt with it (might sound insensitive but I mentioned like family and god how they keep me stable like you know how to not attempt) thanks for taking your time to write this up much appreciated
Context first it was bullying and I think now it's about bullying again she told me she didn't care and I'm the type of person that if you tell me you don't care I listen since you know it's annoying to ask again and again