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miaumiau 28 10,2025
i feel like some CAN change but it has to come from within, some people cheat when theyre very young, having issues and sabotaging, realizing their sexuality,etc. Not that it excuses it but i do think depending on the circumstances they can improve Never trust a cheater tho and never believe you'll be the one to fix them EDIT: Omfg i forgot to read......   1 reply
28 10,2025
Im non-monogamous but cheating can still happen. For me its about my boundaries. If they cross a line and if I forgave them, am I breaking a promise to myself? Am i letting myself down? Decide, not based on your feelings for them but by your feelings for yourself.   reply
28 10,2025
Jaxx
28 10,2025
As a cheater, yes they can change should u date them back ? Hell no. It will constantly be nagging at u , that the person cheated and even if they did change things will not be the same it cannot excuse the fact that they indeed cheated on you.   1 reply
28 10,2025
FRUITCAKE
28 10,2025
As someone who's cheated and been cheated on before yes they can but, that paranoia will always eat at you, it's better to just have a happy healthy relationship.   reply
28 10,2025
silent_wisp
28 10,2025
I’m gonna tell you what my momma told me… don’t ever fight with someone else for your partner. If they wanted the other person so bad, let them. Doesn’t matter how much they apologize, you can totally accept that apology if it seems genuine and forgive them, but don’t get back together EVER, you’re wasting your time. If they cheated onc......   1 reply
28 10,2025
Nenechii
28 10,2025
No. Keep in mind before someone does the deed of cheating, they have had multiple moments to stop it. They didn't. Instead they kept it going on, they simple show sorrow since you or someone else found out about it. In the end cheaters do not feel sorrow for the other party, but they feel sorry for themselves for being caught. I don't believe in fo......   reply
28 10,2025
hellahana
28 10,2025
Nah I don't believe in second chance. Go to hell. Once a cheater, always a fucking cheater. Cheating is a choice and it's not a rushing option. You think, decide and choose to cheat. Just don't. Even if you did get back. What's the point if there's no more trust? Being betrayed won't heal what's broken. Fuck with get back together. Change? Don't jo......   reply
28 10,2025
misa_ki
28 10,2025
NO allow me to tell you a story. there’s this guy who’s been in a very committed relationship with a girl for several years. then one day, he cheated with a co-worker who happens to be a friend of his gf. he claimed it was just lust, not love, so the girl he loved was still his gf. the girlfriend, who has some serious attachment issues, didn�......   reply
28 10,2025
yeah
28 10,2025
everyone CAN change, but i feel like someone actually making change couldn't tolerate themselves asking the victim of their cheating for a second chance;; like have some shame ya know   reply
28 10,2025
idk maybe it depends on the person but, personally, i'm NEVER trusting a cheater ever again (╬ ̄皿 ̄)凸 when my ex cheated on me the first time, i forgave him. it was my first relationship so i was willingly a doormat for him... i wanted it to last. he cheated again with a different girl, i forgave him again bc he cried and promised me that ......   reply
28 10,2025
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