Consent is so sexy

I'm not even trying to be woke (because consent is sooo woke/s) but like consent is genuinely so sexy and I don't get how noncon is so normalized in "romance" fiction to the point where authors think fans prefer it (a lot do ngl). Like the thought of someone wanting you so badly, and being so attracted to you, and seeking you out, and giving you the okay to do the devils tango and merge souls with them is soooo hot. Consent is genuinely really sexy