this is kinda serious (my life kinda depends on this) so I've been with this guy for like 7 months now, he met my family, like he's always in my house, and obv, i fucked him many times... been on a constant date call each other couple call sign but yeah we aren't dating... but like on our 4th month tgt, i asked him if i can be his boyfriend and he told me, "i wont answer it yet, but yk, it doesn't mean a no" which i am kinda glad 'cause financially i aint ready to feed him
and he told me he's kinda worried abt how would his parents would react, as we're both still financially dependent on our parents, and he explained to me that we wait till we graduate college at least
but the thing is ive been constantly overthinking about it, if we aren't on an actual committed relationship, does that mean he can just leave me any time? i really love him, and for me (mentally) we're married
Red flag for the man, I'm sorry but someone who refuses to have labels but will fuck you ain't a good person to be in a relationship with. Shows that if he ever cheats, he'll say "we weren't serious." and yeah he can leave you anytime. He doesn't want the responsibilities for YOU. He does that so you "can't complain" also girl, idk if ur a girl or ...... 1 reply
the fuck… why would he say no js because y’all aren’t financially dependent..? it’s not like you two r gonna get married, it’s just the status of friends to boyfriends that changes. honestly he’s kinda weird ngl. idk the full story but from what you just wrote yeah it’s weird.
ofc he can leave you anytime, you aren’t even in a rel...... 1 reply
I'm not sure if this is real, but I'm going to take it seriously. He’s really avoiding dating you. You know you could date without coming out to both of your parents, he’s just making up excuses. At this point you need to clear your head, you’ve never been with him, you’re not dating, you’re just sex friends. If you’re fine with this no...... reply
U sound like a total green flag omg don’t tell me it’s unrequited love because it really sounds like one anyways I hope he reciprocates ur feelings soon and that u both stay happy forever. If he’s giving u vague answers then he probably has a reason but if not, then fuck him. Tell him to be firm about it and if he still says no, I’d hones...... 1 reply