how do you cope with missing how your family used to be?

how do I cope or grow or what do I do with the fact that me and my siblings arnt close right now? Im 1 of 10 - second oldest daughter. because of life were all just growing at different paces- some are early teens some, some late, some little kids, im 20 - were clashing a lot more and everyones going through their phases and were not close anymore and I hate it but theres not much I can do I can focus on my younger siblings who I have better relationships with but I grew up with the first few generations and I just miss everything but I know I have to move on,. I juts dont even know how to act like a sister anymore. i also know that as we get older things might get better but were all going through a lot right now and I need the comfort of my family.

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Yuzo 1 days

I believe part of it is growing up which is really hard to accept. I was often referred to as my older brother's "lawyer" growing up because when he'd get lectured I'd speak for him and explain why I thought he was innocent because he'd struggle standing up for himself. He was my role model and eventually, once we were out of elementary school, we ...... reply

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Akumaneko 1 days

it is great you felt you were close before, not everyone even has that. could you try sitting down with them and tell them you miss them and want to be closer to them again? maybe plan some activities where you guys can spend time together like you used to? i think even tho you guys are maybe stressed and going thru a lot if you start to reach out...... 1 reply

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CM3 2.0 1 days

My brother is missing and I cut off my extended family and grandparents so I can’t really help you I sorry :’) But recognize as what’s not in your control you’re allowed to feel upset about the situation but don’t let it control your life, if y’all are on good terms you can always reach out to your other siblings even if you’re not t...... reply

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