I've tried putting a giant 6 foot tall teddy bear on my bed, flipping my mattress upside down, pouring water on my bed so its too wet to lay on. I feel like I've done everything but I still find a way to curl up in the corner and hide. I spend about 23 hours a day in bed and I'm so ashamed of it. Any tips? And not bullshit like get a routine or go to the gym. I've tried again and again and I need a new angle to attack life at because that one doesn't work for me at this time. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ I'm gonna get out of this shithole! I'm done!!
Your bed is not the problem. Even if you removed it entirely, you'd probably still find a replacement. TBH I think what you need to do is start by untangling whatever it is that makes you want to spend 23 hrs a day in your bed in the first place.
And your reasons why don't need to be traumatic, btw. Wanting to stay in bed because it's comfortable ...... 1 reply
For me, I've moved my bedrotting elsewhere. For example, I've spent an entire day on my living room couch. It gave me a reason to interact with my family bc they always hang out in the livingroom. I watched movies, went on my phone, played video games, etc. It's a whole lot better than being isolated in a bedroom all day, trust.
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