Ur partner having a close friend of opposite gender
Wht do yall think ab that?
Ive seen a whole lotta people saying that having a best friend of opposite gender is a "red flag" bc guys n girls cannot be friends
so, if ure lesbian, like does ur gf have to cut off all her best friends because theyre girls? Same goes for gay guys.. like I only see straight ppl making a big deal out of this. And ppl saying their partners MUST cut off all friendships w their friends js cuz theyre girls or guys are lowkey giving me insecure middle school relationship vibess.. sorry
like, if my guy friend told me we couldnt talk anymore cuz of his gf, its fine w me and ill completely respect it and cut him off
but if my partner had a girl friend, i genuinely would not mind at all n i wouldnt cut off my guy friends js bc i got a boyfriend but Obviously, I'll have respectable boundaries between us like im not gonna be touchy, or flirty and be some weirdo yk
Idk, what do yall think
I'll be truthful here, i do not trust men with maintaining entirely platonic relationships with women, because I've been on the recieving end of the affections of my "male friends" way too often, and many of them were not single. So idk I'll always be a little sceptical of my man's female friends. (Not putting the blame on the friends here, but men......
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