pls help me find a yaoi manga im begging

i’ve been looking an hour now and am going to lose my mind. it’s about a newlywed couple who live together. one is in his 20s and the other is 30. the younger one is an office worker while the other stays at home. the top (20s) thinks they have too much sex so worries that is all the bottom (30) likes him for so they try nonpenetrative sex. sorry tis long i just really need help man