I'm not sure of my Sexuality

So I've realized until now that as a boy, I've been attracted to strong-willed, tomboyish girls and I only view other girls without those characteristics as friends. Later I found out that one of the girls I've been attracted to had gotten themselves a girlfriend. I've been thinking if I'm really attracted to girls or just using these characteristics as an excuse and actually attracted to boys. Because one time I found my male classmate attractive that I just want to get close to him but his personality turned me off. I am a also a little effeminate so I do get along with girls and I can be a gentleman and show courtesy to girls as well, but what I also want is to be shown courtesy like to other girls, I wanted to be the one protected and cared for (a treatment which mostly only girls get). So I wonder: What exactly is my sexuality?

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Sazz 01 07,2020

Hmm I don't think this could be used as indication that you like boys (it still could be tho). For example, i prefer submissive guys, i am bisexual, i like girls too, my preference on being the dominant one in the relationship has nothing to do with my sexuality. It's just your personality, it doesn't mean that you necessarily like boys, you could ...... reply

01 07,2020

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I'm not sure of my Sexuality

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